Grandfather used to always say to him, Kid... you are the Eldest Young Lady, so you must endure more hardships, set an example for your younger siblings, show the demeanor of an Eldest Young Lady, protect your younger siblings. Don't think that just because you are a girl, you cannot do better than a boy. As long as you are willing to endure hardships… even boys cannot surpass you!
Bai Qingyan has the same expectations for her daughter, hoping Kangle won't think she should be sheltered by her relatives just because she is a girl. She wants both her daughter and son to grow up to be upright and independent individuals.
Xiao Rongyan was somewhat stunned, not expecting the Bai family to educate their children in this manner.
