The old political commissar said so much, just to tell Lan Li that it was mostly his fault that he and Ding Jinshi ended up like this. Although Ding Jinshi now has another man accompanying her, Ding Jinshi used to give a lot for Lan Li too. It's just that Lan Li didn't hold onto it, didn't cherish it well, so a grown man can't expect a woman to keep giving endlessly. Women are to be cherished, not bullied.
"Lan Li, I might sound like an old man preaching, but I feel I must say this. The little girl from the Gu Family, Gu En, right? You all spoil her too much. Just think, what kind of things is she doing? She opposes you being with Ding Jinshi in every possible way, even threatening with her own life. Even if she's your little sister, you can't spoil her like this. Gu En is still young now, but being spoiled like this, one day she'll become someone who doesn't know her limits."
