She doesn't like the real Feng Nianian; her presence gives off a vibe similar to that of the evil spirit, perhaps because she's been trapped in Xin Miao's body for too long, distorted and extreme in personality.
But if she had sincerely come to the Shu Family and talked things over, she would have been willing to work with her to find a solution. Instead, she resorted to such measures to capture her, planning to lock her in a cage and intimidate her—helping her just seemed ridiculous.
As for Xin Miao, she once helped her make phone calls, genuinely sympathizing and hoping to help.
However, the help she could offer was limited. She admitted she was selfish, fearing the evil spirit more than anyone, and she could never sacrifice herself or her family for her.
She trusted Xiu Xi's strength, but now Feng Nianian caused her to be kicked, and she would likely suffer a lot.
Therefore, her emotions were truly complex.
