Actually, I understand now. My husband asking this question is merely his way of seeking psychological balance. He cannot accept that the person he loves most has fallen for another man, while he remains as a backup forever. His heart aches just the same, but some things aren't easily forgotten or changed. Everyone's life path is one they forge themselves, and the choices they make define the outcomes they'll face in this lifetime.
"To be honest, I don't know how to explain it to you. When I'm with you, I don't feel that flutter in my heart, but with him, I do because I love him. I'm willing to sacrifice everything for him, just so I can see him every moment of my life. Seeing him daily is a happiness I can't describe. Maybe you don't understand this kind of feeling, but I have no way to describe how it feels to be so moved."
