Old people always like to say this: when marrying a man, look at his character. So in their eyes, love never truly existed. Whether or not marrying the wrong man depends on his virtues. Can he distinguish right from wrong, can he be loyal and righteous, is he blindly filial?
A woman should marry a husband who cares for her, that's the priority.
What does it mean to have a husband who cares for his wife? Bai Lu thinks her little aunt's husband, Jiang Dashao, is definitely a slave to his wife. If that isn't a caring husband, then there's no one under heaven who can be. Indeed, Jun Ye can't compare to Jiang Dashao, but when others criticize Bai Lu, Jun Ye does a great job in those situations.
