A more over-the-top girlfriend?
Nan Zhubin took a deep breath, thinking about the visitor's previous wish to "learn to restrain emotions."
He could somewhat guess the story that would follow.
"It's like, teacher, can you understand? That kind of, uh... it's something he told me, he said the more it hurts, the more it allows him to feel that tangible emotional connection."
"He told me the more his girlfriend is... uh, forceful with him, the more he feels that she loves him... on this matter, teacher, can you understand?"
The visitor was once again seeking [validation].
A bit hard to maintain composure.
But... as a psychological consultant, Nan Zhubin could indeed understand.
So, Nan Zhubin nodded slightly.
However, the visitor didn't seem to be very firm in seeking an answer, quickly speaking on about the direct cause for making this request.