The Trauma holder individual insists on carrying all the trauma and self sacrifice himself constantly. For some reason he acts so oddly similiar to a very certain self—sacrificing reader. Due to all the abuse he has experienced, he insists on carrying it all alone.
While the Calm who has chosen to write this clearly has a very distinct personality. The calm now is just forced to beat the self sacrificing one's ass on purpose just so he can stop taking control as the user who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder.