Chapter 3: The Tricks They Use – How to Spot the Lies
Babi na Uku: Wayon Da Suke Yi – Yadda Za A Gane Karyar Su
English Section (Simple English):
People with this brain sickness are very clever. They do not show their bad side quickly. Instead, they use "tricks" to get close to a child's belly without the parents knowing. They want the child to think it is just a "game."
Here are the tricks they use to fool children and parents:
The "Strong Man" Game:
They tell the child, "I want to see if you are a strong boy. Let me stand on your belly to see if you can carry me." The child wants to be brave, so he agrees. This is not a test of strength; it is a trick to get satisfaction.
The "Medicine" or "Massage" Lie:
They may tell the parent or the child, "The child's belly is too hard" or "He has gas." Then they offer to "massage" it. They use this excuse to press deep into the belly for a long time.
The "Wrestling" Trap:
They play rough wrestling games where they always end up sitting or kneeling on the child's stomach. They make it look like an accident, but they do it on purpose.
Giving Gifts (Grooming):
They give the child sweets, money, or toys. They tell the child, "This is our secret game. Don't tell your mommy." This makes the child feel he must obey them to keep getting gifts.
How Parents Can Ask Questions:
Parents must learn to talk to their children to find the truth. Do not shout; ask gently:
"Did anyone play a 'heavy' game with you today?"
"Does your belly ever feel sore after playing with Uncle or Big Brother?"
"Has anyone ever stood on you or sat on you like a chair?"
"Did anyone tell you to keep a secret about a game you played?"
If a child says "yes" or looks scared, you must take it seriously.
Sashen Hausa:
Mutane masu wannan cutar ta kwakwalwa suna da wayo sosai. Ba sa nuna mugun halinsu a fili. Maimakon haka, suna amfani da dabarun "wayo" domin su kusanci cikin yaro ba tare da iyaye sun gane ba. Suna so yaron ya dauka cewa "wasa" ne kawai ake yi.
Ga dabarun wayo da suke amfani dasu wajen rudar yara da iyaye:
Wasan "Jarumi":
Suna gaya wa yaro, "Inaso na gani ko kai jarumi ne mai kwarin ciki. Bari na taka ka na gani ko zaka iya dauka na." Yaro yana so ya nuna shi jarumi ne, sai ya amince. Wannan ba gwajin jarunta bane; dabo ne na son samun gamsuwa.
Karyar "Magani" ko "Taunawa":
Suna iya gaya wa iyaye ko yaron cewa, "Cikin yaron nan ya kumbura" ko "akwai iska a ciki." Sai su ce bari su "tauna" masa cikin ko su yi masa "massage." Suna amfani da wannan hanzarin domin su danna cikin yaron na tsawon lokaci.
Tarkon Wasan Dambe:
Suna yin wasan dambe na murtuku inda a karshe koyaushe sai sun zauna ko sun zuba gwiwa akan cikin yaron. Suna nuna kamar kuskure ne ya faru, amma da gangan suke yi.
Bawa Yaro Kyauta:
Suna bawa yaro alawa, kudi, ko abun wasa. Suna gaya wa yaron, "Wannan wasan sirrin mu ne. Kada ka gaya wa mamanka." Wannan yana sa yaro ya ji tsoron fadar gaskiya domin yana tsoron kar a daina ba shi kyauta.
Yadda Iyaye Zasu Yi Tambayoyi:
Dole iyaye su koyi yadda zasu yi wa yaransu tambayoyi na hikima domin gano gaskiya. Kada ka yi fada; yi magana cikin lallashi:
"Wani ya taba yin wasa mai nauyi da kai yau?"
"Shin cikinka yana ciwo bayan ka gama wasa da Wane ko Yaya?"
"Wani ya taba takawa akan ka ko ya zauna akanka kamar kujera?"
"Wani ya taba gaya maka ka boye sirrin wani wasa da kuka yi?"
Idan yaro yace "eh" ko kuma kaga ya nuna tsoro a fuskarsa, to lallai akwai matsala, dole ka bincika sosai.
Conclusion of Chapter 3:
We have exposed the tricks they use to hide their sickness. In Chapter 4, we will talk about the internal injuries—how stepping on a belly can break the liver and spleen, and why it is a silent killer.
Kammalawar Babi na 3:
Mun fito da dabarun wayon da suke amfani dasu wajen boye cutar su. A Babi na 4, zamu yi bayani akan raunukan cikin gida—yadda takawa ciki yake fasa hanta da saifa, da kuma dalilin da yasa wannan kisa ne na boye.