Maybe! Everything in the world is so inconceivable. No one knows how to completely solve what has already happened to them. No one knows the torment involved in what they do.
In fact, they have no idea what they are saying or doing, so all of this is wrong.
"Xinxin, you have never really thought about the things between us. You always feel that getting through the Five Elements and Eight Trigrams is what we should do, but actually, it's all wrong from start to finish."
Was it someone else who forced them here? Maybe, maybe not, because they never knew that actually coming here might be good for them? They just don't want to give, don't want to reciprocate, don't want to think about these things.
They don't want to pass the barriers because they don't want to go, don't want to waste their lives on this. But they are willing to give for themselves because they know these efforts will ultimately have meaning.
