STAYING SINGLE IS BETTER THAN ENGAGING YOURSELF TO THE WRONG PERSON: Before marriage theres singleness ,while you're single you have every right to choose who your spouse will be . Now some people love because of money ,some because of physical attributes ,some because of love . Marrying because of money is one of the most dangerous reasons to get married to someone . Reasons : you do not know how the person acquired that wealth ,the world is dangerous now adays ,some are hidden ritualists ,you just Don't know and in the process of getting married to someone because of money ,you might loose your life because just like investments illegal money is always renewed .Marrying because of physical attributes is a childish reason to get married to some one . Reasons: Beauty fades ,you might get married to someone because he has height ,he's handsome ,he's fair ,they all fades . We can't be young forever ,We will all get old and by then the love has faded away ,and then the marriage might start falling apart. Marrying bacause of love . First what is love .love is being able to forgive ,care , understand ,tolerate someone else . Love is not abuse , I've seen people who gets beaten up by people who claims they love them ,until when will you stop receiving beatings ?? Love is never abuse ..Get out of any toxic love ,you night end up a victim .
TIP: before marriage ,or before saying yes ,pray . It helps .